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Controlling boyfriend?

I want some honest and answers. Please! Hello, I am met T 13 month ago Online. We have had happy times. I can say I care about him. The Chemistry is good. BUT and here comes the BIG BUT. He has been showing some strong Emotional abusive tendency's. I want to know what you guys think. Not just woman please guys feel free to answer this one as well. First of all, he stayed with me pretty much since Dec 08 till March 09. We spend allot ot time together. He met my daughters and they seemingly got along. BUT when he was here it was not so perfect anymore. My niece was here from Germany to visit me. I am German. And so we would talk German. He would say things like don't talk so much German. My niece English ability is good but not super good. He actually asked me once to ask my niece in English , to come with me to the Lady's room. I was absolutly confused. SO fare he made every Holiday miserable. Things did not go his way, he would pull me inside the bathroom and complain at me like I was seven years old. For Christmas me and my niece sat down for like an half hour to watch some UPN. She loves the black Culture. Is very fascinated by it. So we watched Black Television..this is when he came to me and ask me to switch the SHOW to a Christimas Movies...his words exaclty today is not Black Day. I found that very disgusting. He would get upset when I talked to my Ex/ father of my children/best friend about my family. He wanted to have all the News before anybody else. But my sister, asked me not to disclose her Private Life to T because she does not trust him. T has been unemployeed since December.I have been supporting him, offering him free rent, groceries, free Utilities. I was paying that with my Ex's Alimony. He was good enought to pay for T's food but not for me and him to chat about my sister. I do not understand this man at all. He says things like tell me that you love me! While he was here he was getting ver involved in my childrens Parenting. I asked him numerous times to stay out of it. And then when it got super bad I told him this is none of your buisness he would freak getting up pointing at me saying Fuck you.......This happend on serveral occasions. Once he said something really dumb....and I said to him in a joking way sometimes u need to think before u say stupid ...and he got up looked at me and made me apologize.....between being called stupid woman..or sometimes oh you german....or fuck you when I really pissed him off.....He makes me feel scared. He gives me looks that intimitdate me. He is not a good Example. He drove without a Seatbelt once when my kids were in the Car, he has trash he just thros it out the window. Regardless, of how large. My Ex just came back from Iraq and is staying with me he was shocked...after all the snow was melted he found the front lawn destroyed....100 Cigarrette Butts. Its looks horrible. Thrown into the neighbour yard. NOW T is moved out he moved in March. I could not take it any longer. My kids say they are happy he is gone. NOW please everybody tell me if I am overreacting that I am on a break with him....???? He seems to think soo... I have to say a few more things just in chase he reads this and says I am not sticking by the truth. He helped me while he was here. Around the house, driving me around. And helping me when I was sick. He always brings those up with me...So I thought I should mention those I have to say a few more things just in chase he reads this and says I am not sticking by the truth. He helped me while he was here. Around the house, driving me around. And helping me when I was sick. He always brings those up with me...So I thought I should mention those

Public Comments

1. gosh..dats lyk a lot to read dnt yue think?...phew!
2. Sounds like a real douchebag. Leave him for good.
3. "niece in English , to come with me to the Lady's room. I was absolutly confused. SO fare he made every Holiday miserable. Things did not go his way, he would pull me inside the bathroom and complain at me like I was seven years old. For Christmas me and my niece sat down for like an half hour to watch some UPN. She loves the black Culture. Is very fascinated by it. So we watched Black Television..this is when he came to me and ask me to switch the SHOW to a Christimas Movies...his words exaclty today is not Black Day." Run and don't look back! His behavior will only get worse!
4. This guy sounds like a jerk(can't use the word I really want to use) He does not deserve to have a person like you. You can find someone better. Also Online meetings can be iffy because you don't really know the person.
5. I would say you're NOT overreacting! I would break it off with this man-he doesn't sound like he respects you and does want to control you & it will just get much worse. Think of your children too & if they're happy he's gone it was a good move. There are plenty of men out there that are way better than this guy!
6. think it the right thing that could have happened. dont let him back. next time he could hit you. keep him away from your children, sounds like a waste of space. good luck in life.
7. Always trust yout instincts, your not over reacting. I am so glad you got out of that before it got physical. you deserve much better!
8. No you are not overreacting, you should have broke it off with him a long time ago. Don't worry what he thinks, just move on with your life. It sadens me to see woman stick with men who does not show them any respect and controls them.
9. This guy is trouble - lots of it. Stay away from him - he's nothing more than a piece of sh*t unemployed lazy@ss who's in denial with himself and with others. You deserve none of that crap he gave you.
10. Oh well done on getting rid of him, I mean it. Controllers like him do not usually let go so easily. The most important statement you made regarding the absolute "wrongness" of this relationship was "He makes me feel scared". That is not normal, it is your gut feelings trying to tell you something really important. Run away from him in every sense and do not look back.