One Night Stands Knowledge Base
Why are one night stands ok but visiting a prostitute is not? Both involve sex with a stranger. In many countries prostitution is legal by the way. In countries where prostitution is legal prostitutes regularly have STD checks which can't be said for the one night stands. And with that in mind isn't a clean prostitute better then a one night stand who may have all sorts STD without even knowing it? Is it just that people are hypocrites when it comes to this?
What do teenagers do to get one night stands? How do they do it? How do they get them? I'm abstinent but I probably couldn't get a one night stand if I tried. How do teenagers who can't get into bars or clubs get one night stands?
Are republican women easier to have one night stands with than liberals? I am in the mood for a one night stand today for some reason, preferably with a republican girl. It has been said by some the republican women are easy to sleep with for one night only. I plan on ditching the girl the next morning. If anyone has had one night stands with republican women, I would be thankful for your advice.
How can I setup one night stands with locals online? Im in the Grand Rapids, MI area and im trying to find out how people hook-up online for one night stands because I've heard all about it on a local radio station but I can't find any site to set these things up.
How do you feel about knowing your girlfriend has had one night stands in the past? If you found out your girlfriend has had one night stands before would you still be comfortable with trying to have a serious relationship with her? I think if a women has a one night stand she has no self respect and isn't worth being serious with. I wouldn't want to have a relationship with someone who has slept with guys she barely knows. Why should a man make a commitment to a woman who gives it away? What's your opinion?
How do one night stands work? Like, where do you meet your one night stand? Where do you go to 'do the deed'? What happens afterwards? How are one-night-stands different for different age groups?
What percent of clubbing girls are up for one night stands? Roughly what percentage of girls you think are willing to have one night stands and casual sex and what percentage do you think do not? Wow these figures are really something. I dont go clubbing, i only asked this question on here cause i have a friend who does and he keeps telling me how many times hes had sex and how he can sex girls up within the first week of knowing them from clubs etc.
What percentage of young, single women are into one night stands? Like if I go to a bar or a club, am I likely to meet a high percentage of women who are into one night stands? Can I have an approximate figure here - 20%, 40%, 50%? What, in your estimation, would be the percentage of young, single women who would be willing to sleep with a guy after just meeting him?
What are your views on one night stands? Why do people have one night stands? For me, I think they are immoral and having sex is something that should be shared between two people that love eachother.... So why do people have one night stands, is it because it just feels good?
What percentage of your sexual encounters have been one night stands? Were they planned or did they just happen? What are your values concerning one night stands? Oh yeah, sometimes a one night stand leads to a relationship...which means that you've slept with their person for more than "one night"...please exclude and/or qualify these ones. Also, was alcohol involved...was the female drunk or sober? "Slutty" or girl-next-door?
Should I resort to one night stands or should I jump off a bridge? Should I resort to one night stands or should jump off a bridge? I have patiently waited for the woman of my dreams while upholding certain moral values. Unfortunately, I have not found any women that remotely like me as a person. Should I just start knocking drunken women up, jump off a bridge and end it, or try to uphold my values(I cannot do this anymore)
How do teenagers get one night stands? How do they do it? How do they get them? I'm abstinent but I probably couldn't get a one night stand if I tried. How do teenagers who can't get into bars or clubs get one night stands?
Why is a relationship better then one night stands? One night stands + points: sex with more girls. no ''having to meet up with them again'' possibly more fun you get more experience you dont get hurt by love (i know people will mention STD's here, but im not looking for that response, i want to know why you might think a relationship is better) thanks.
What do several one night stands mean? I know what a one night stand means, but when it comes to 5 6 of them, I get confused. Not the sexual one night stuff, just the kissing, making out, holding hands and such.
How do you trust one night stands? If you are lucky to get a one night stand and you get some action at your place how do you trust the girl? I mean after s3x I might want to get a bath or if we want to do it several times. Do you just leave her alone in bed or what?
In your dating life, has your sex life been more one-night stands, or more time with one woman? Only talking about the time when you've been dating, (not including married sex, if you are married), has more of your sexual experience been as one night stands, or has more of your history been in relationships with a woman you've gotten to know better. I guess another way to ask this is, has most of your experience been with more partners but not as well, or with fewer partners but have gotten to know them very well as a sex partner.
What are your opinions on one night stands? I consider myself a good person. I'm in school and I have a job. But I don't really want a relationship. I feel like I need to be in a different stage in my life to be committed with someone. But as a woman I still have sexual urges... and although they have some nifty toys out there it doesn't substitute for the real thing ya know? So I'm kind of open to having a one night stand with someone but I'm kind of concerned about the image I will be portraying to others??
Girls what do you think of one night stands? Have you ever had any one night stands or flings in your past? And how do you choose what guy you sleep with? And do you approach the guy or did he approach you with the idea? I work a lot and don't have much time to develop a relationship like I did in the past and was wondering how I could go about finding a fling or something. I also don't wanna get some hooker from the street?
How many One Night Stands have you had? How many One Night Stands have you had, and how old are you? I'm writing a book, and need to know this for one of my characters, who is a fun-loving party guy and very liberal. And I really have no idea how much is normal! Thanks. :)
So when you guys have one night stands with a girl? What makes you contact her the next day? I had a one night stand (we were both typsy) And the following day he textes me that whole week... But basically what I'm asking is I thought one nights are one night things. What makes a guy a guy want to keep in contact with the girl after the one night fling.
Why am I all of a sudden interested in one night stands? I'm 18 and have never had a serious boyfriend but always kind of longed for one... but lately I've found myself more interested in one night stands! Like there are several guys who I work with who I look at and am like 'yep I would definitely sleep with them' and given the chance I honestly would and I'm still a virgin!! And it's not even just because I'm horny so don't say that.... why am I suddenly turning into a closet slut lol?
Am I the only guy who doesn't want to have one night stands? I've been reading a bunch of articles online, and they all seem to advance the stereotype that men generally only want sex and always try to have a lot of one night stands. How true is this stereotype? Am I the only guy who doesn't want to have one night stands?
Are one night stands supposed to be kinda passionate? Me and this guy are not in a relationship but we have very good sex. If it was just a one night stand I'm sure he wouldn't make out with me or kiss my neck or anything like that but he does and does other things to turn me on. Based on this do you think he likes me?
Does everyone really have one night stands like TV portrays? There are always people having one nights stands, hooking up on first dates, kissing like 5 minutes after they've met and having "casual sex". Does this stuff happen in real life as often as it does on TV? I feel stupid for asking because I don't know but is this really as common as shows and movies depict?
Guys: Do you respect girls who have one night stands with you? Do you respect them in the sense that you were both just looking for a fling, or do you consider them "sluts"? Would you ever consider them for your girlfriend? Also, how do you react if you see them again? P.S. I am just curious. I never have had and don't plan to have one night stands, but I know girls who have. Thanks.
An otherwise great wife has occasional one-night stands? Please note that this is hypothetical. An otherwise great wife--caring, kind, helpful, supportive, etc.--reveals that over the years of the marriage that she has had occasional one-night stands. She loves her husband and does not want to leave or end the marriage and had no feeling for the other men but instead was fulfilling some personal need. Is she a bad wife or still a good one? Can her otherwise good qualities outweigh these acts or not? Opinions please.
One night stands and sexual performance? I was mulling over my sexual history today and noticed that I can never get a decent erection during a one night stand. I have to use my fingers and mouth to make her come because my d*** isn't lasting the distance. I only seem to have good sex with a woman if I've known her well enough to have fantasied about her previously. I was wondering how common this is among men? I'm single right now and would like to play the field for awhile, but even though I love having one night stands my poor performance is annoying.
Why do people assume <heterosexual> women don't like one night stands? The thought is always that women are desperate for love, have one night stands and end up falling in love with the guys, while guys take pride in "conquering" (no, having sex is not conquering) as many women as possible. Don't people realize that women like sex, too? Danny: I have no idea what you said. And Pinky: Please don't call someone sweety who you don't know, it can be mistaken as patronizing. That said, I have never had a one night stand and have been in a monogamous relationship for over a year, but I feel for those women out there that get called sluts and whores for doing as the guys do. As long as you're calling me a whore, Pinky, why don't you call the guys out there whores? It's okay though, I forgive you. A lot of people fear a woman who is open about her sexuality. And P.S. in case you came from a po-dunk town that only taught abstinence-only sex education, condoms are highly effective in preventing STDs.
How many One Night Stands have you had? How many One Night Stands have you had, and how old are you? I'm writing a book, and need to know this for one of my characters, who is a fun-loving party guy and very liberal. And I really have no idea how much is normal! Thanks. :)
Girls in your 20's: Do you ever have one night stands or flings? I like to write stories for fun, and post them in forums for people to read, but I like to make my stories realistic. I know guys have one night stands or meaningless flings no problem, but for girls is a lot of times means more to them. Would it be realistic for a female character (in her mid twenties) in my story to have meaningless flings and one night stands? Or do girls that young usually wait for it to be someone they love?
Why do people have one night stands? If I'm attracted to someone, I like to see him often. I have no problem seeing him again and again. I don't think I'd be content with seeing only for one night. It's not satisfying on the long run. Why do people have a one night stand. Are they ashamed to meet eacother again? Do they get bored of eachother?
Is there anything wrong with one night stands? i think there awesome. especially if ur a career person. never have to worry about someone slowing u down or distracting u. only have to worry about how hot the guy is. u get in get out and move on to the next person (the process is a litter longer than that) but what do people think about one night stands really. as long as the guys hot who cares. and if u have a real career chances are your too buys for a relationship
Women and men both: What's your take on one night stands? I'm just curious as to what women and men of all ages think of one night hookups. How old are you, have you ever had a one night stand, and what do you think about it? (do you regret it, etc) Also, men, how old are you, and what do you think of women who have one night stands with? (do you think they're sluts, etc)
Is a girl still a slut if she doesn't have one night stands? They say a slut is a girl who has one night stands with strangers. So what about a girl who sleeps with a lot of different guys but it's not just a one time thing? Is she still slutty or is she just popular and has several boyfriends? Does having sex with a stranger still count against you if you become a couple later on?
Why don't women like to do one night stands? Do women not enjoy sex as much as men? Also if you say it's "degrading" care to explain that? Why are you defining your self worth through your inability to have sex, instead of maybe your education or profession? What does it say about yourself if your "value" decreases everytime you have sex? Basically, the women who don't do one night stands have nothing to offer except sex. So they cling onto it for dear life.
How do people have one night stands and not get emotionally involved? Okay I kind of understand this and kind of not.If your a guy is it really just sex when you have a one night stand?Can you turn your emotions off?I know for women theirs usually emotions mixed in with this.I just wanna know with guys if there having one night stands is it just physical???Also is there a way to tell the difference(to know if a guys emotionally involved?)Okay last question is their some kind of edicate to one night stands(i was asked this and really had no clue how to answer,so if any one knows please help me out on this one)
Are one night stands such a big deal? Do you think its wrong for your first time to be a one night stand. Whether you know the person or not. Or do you think its better to be in a relationship?
Why do some people prefer one night stands to friends with benefits? I've always wondered this. there have been some one nite stands ive had that the guy never wanted to speak to me again, and I wanted to keep sleeping together even if it wasnt romantic. i thought the sex was good---but they didnt want to ever hang out again. why would a guy turn down continuous sex?
Why is it okay for adults to have one night stands? but not for teenagers? I mean, no one cares when adults meet and sleep together the first night of knowing each other. But if it's a teenager, it's horrible. I personally find it trashy either way, but why is this? And please, don't say because adults are more mature/responsible. There are tons of irresponsible adults.
What do you think of one night stands? Well I have been talking to this girl for about two weeks, and we plan to hang out. I really like her and could see myself serious with her. Now my friend brock asked me if I wanted some from his ex's friend this weekend. Because him, and his ex are hooking up at there place. Now my question is should I forget the one night thing, and focus on the girl I really like. For some reason I would feel weird inviting this girl over to my place when I like this other on what should I do? And I'm not really into these on night things.
I'm 25 years old and my penis goes limp during one night stands, but not in normal relationships, why? I have had 3 one night stands in the past 2 months and I mean literally meeting a girl that very night and a few hours later we get intimate, but for some reason, all 3 times, my penis goes limp and I struggle to get it back up. The girl ends up thinking that I'm not attracted to her, but it's definitely not true. In my normal relationships with girlfriends, I have no problem. I keep thinking it has something to do with being nervous or something? It's a pattern that I have observed, can anyone give me advice?
What makes people have one night stands? Personally, I think they are just wrong because sexual stuff should be shared with someone who you care about (love..) I've never had one because of this reason, but I just wanted to see how everyone else felt about having one... how come? what's the appeal to having one? Thanks everyone!
What's worse, for a guy to have one night stands or visit a prostitute? I was totally shocked when one of my male friends admitted he'd slept with prostitutes. His argument was that it was more honest than picking up girls in clubs etc. for one night stands. He wasn't leading anyone on or hurting anyone's feelings and everyone knew where they stood. I don't approve of what he's done, but I have to admit he raises an interesting point. What does everyone else think?
Any tips about one night stands? I am going to meet someone for some party and drinkin' at a hotel. We are sharing the cost of the hotel. Any advice? Anything I should know about one night stands? I've never done these before. I just thought I should be adventurous. Thanks! :-)
How do one night stands work? Like do you leave before they wake up? straight after sex? or stick around? I'm not planning on having one! i just wanna know
can you forgive a girlfriend who has one night stands during a breakup? so me and this girl dated for about two years, and then going into college (300 miles away from each other) we split up. In her first week of college, she hooked up with two guys, and then when we started talking again, she hooked up with another one. She lied to me about two of them (straight to my face), and told me they meant nothing. Forgive? or no.
Numerous affairs & one-night stands resulting in unplanned pregnancies? 1) If someone started spreading rumors about a man having numerous affairs and one-night stands with numerous women, which resulted in them getting pregnant, how do you deal with this to get the rumors stopped? 2) Is this ever a bad thing to say about someone like the man above, how can it affect his reputation? 3) Is the above ever possible, even for a man to do this for 30-40 years?
How many people have had one night stands? I was just wonderting becuase one of my friends is a bit of a s**t and she has a couple every week and she tells me some very graphic stories, just wondering if anyone else does and what its like
How do you feel about one night stands? I'm 19. I personally don't like them. I believe sex should be something intimate between two people that love each other. I don't think they have to be married or over 18 but definitely in love.
I lie and manipulate women for one night stands? ok so basically im 18 just turned and i lie and manipulate women for 1 night stands. Yup lol basically look at charlie sheen on two and a half men or barney stinson and u got me on what i do 2 women. For some reason im not really looking for a relationship all i just want is 1 night stands is that a bad thing?
I lie and manipulate women for one night stands? ok so basically im 18 just turned and i lie and manipulate women for 1 night stands. Yup lol basically look at charlie sheen on two and a half men or barney stinson and u got me on what i do 2 women. For some reason im not really looking for a relationship all i just want is 1 night stands is that a bad thing?
Do one night stands make a woman look really bad? I have never had one before and there is a slight chance I will see the guy I hooked up with again, and my friends (who know the guy but I just met him) could tell he and I were gonna do something. I don't regret what I did but I don't want people to think I am a slut for it, cause I am very much not one. Do guys look down on the girl they hooked up with, automatically assume they are a slut?
What is the name of this song about one night stands? It's a slow rock song I think, I heard it a few years back, and I could never find the name of the song or the artist, I have tried googling, but I haven't been lucky. I know its not the beatles, Any help of suggestions would be appreciated!
one night stands is it a sin or blessing? Do you girls often have one night stands just coz its fun or are you dead against them, and what would make your ideal one night stand or why wouldnt you have one also??
What do one night stands means for you guys and girls? is it just a quickie and forget it or you will always remember for the rest of your life? do you remember every night stand you ever had (not drunk of course) and every details? And how often do you remember them or dream about them?? even if you are in a relationship on the moment! Thanks 4popping by! best answer gets 5 !
What's wrong with a girl who SLEEPS around & has ONE NIGHT STANDS? Give me a reasonable explanation to why guys can sleep around & have one night stands for pleasure & girls are considered trashy and called things that are considered low such as whores..... ...just a reasonable explanation from a girl's or guy's point of view P.S....let's leave STDs out....not a reason
Do you support one night stands? Just curious is you support one night stands, how many you have had and why you do it. I have no bias in this discussion, I am very guilty of engaging in a few random nights but I just wanted to know what other people thought of them.
What do you think of one night stands? Is it bad or good? I never had a one night stand but looking into it because I am 24 and I only had 3 parthers that I had relationships with, how does it feel personally what happens and do you just leave right after sex and never call eachother???
What are your thoughts on one night stands? Its not a personal question, just interested in others thoughts. My friend took a guy home last night, then he left this morning. Didn't swap numbers or anything. I think good on her if she was happy with that. Least she got what she wanted! How many one night stands have you had? Be honest?
One night stands and the results? Have you guys who have one night stands without protection ever wondered what happened next? Did you wonder did you get your partners pregnant? Did you wonder what may have happened to the baby? Did you ever wonder can this things happen to you? How do you feel if you fathered a child without ever knowing?
one night stands no string sex does it work? Can you have “meaningless sex” a one night stand with no repercussions? Is it possible for two people to meet and only connect on a physical level and does one person invest more into the chance encounter than the other?
one night stands, to the people who have them? why do people have one night stands and what do they get from it? do you have any regrets. have you or would you do it if you were married ? what type of feelings are involved? were you drunk/stoned ?
One night stands? I want to know your opinion about one night stands. How come people don't talk to each other after a one night stand? Why did you or why do think people have one? Why do people meet up and have sex one night and stop talking to each other after a one night stand? Is it the awkwardness after the deed was done? Please feel free to voice your opinion.
One Night Stands?? I have had a few one night stands..My question is that a coworker girl said that the was kinda sleezy which I beg to differ..I told her that almost everyone I know has had atleast one. How many of you have had a one night stand and is it sleezy or not common?? Let me know
About those one-night stands? So, when I was younger, I had quite a few one-night stands (typical of bipolars). I have been both the one snuck out on and the one who sneaks out before the other awakes. I also married a man that started out as what I presumed would be a one-night stand. That was a big mistake...LOL. So, can you tell me a little about your one-night stand experiences?
One night stands.? My friend had a one night stand with a guy she knew within 1 day, Now he wants her to call him and all. I think she likes him a lot. But I think one night stands should be kept one night stands and taken no further. Or should not taken place at all. What do you all think, do you think the guy actually likes her?
One Night Stands ? Right , Wrong , or down to the individual . Considering factors such as STD's and the risks that a one Night Stand could have not only on the individual but future partners . And does having lots of One Night Stands make you more at risk of and Std or is it just pot Luck .
One night stands, praised yesterday, slaughtered today? I asked a question a few days ago which posed "why should I date a girl who has had one night stands if I am not comfortable with that type of behavior". I never had one, never "made that mistake" and I'm not even sure if it is a mistake. I assume many people think it is because the women I have recently been dating try to hide the fact they ever partook in this activity. What can I say, I'm just not comfortable dating those who would sleep with someone they don't know, I think it's gross and reckless behavior. The rhitorical question is, why would a woman who has had one night stands go out of her way to try to hide that from me if they know I would not want to be with them? I think that's an example of more bad judgement on their part, but I digress. I received supportive answers when I asked this the other evening, but today I was slaughtered and accused of being closed minded. Since when is it a bad thing to make judgements, and yes, judge people for what they have done in the past. Past actions shape who we are today, I have been so strongly reminded. Therefore doesn't it stand to reason that I date someone whom I feel used good judgement as opposed to poor judgement in their lives.
one night stands.. girls only? do girls actually go for one night stands preferably? i find it that most gurls do not like one night stands. where do you stand on this?
Is it a risk to participate in one night stands? it's seems like men doesn't want to commit to long term relationships or don't want to become attached. they rather have a one night stand and that's it. one guy that i ran into wanted it bareback. that's crazy!!!! how am i'm going to have unprotected intercourse with some one that i don't know? are one night stands a risk of getting dieases (HIV.)? or is it' common? some one please answer this for me...
One night stands and potential partners? If you knew that a potential partner had had a one night stand (or stands) would that put you off having a relationship with them? And if so, how many would it take to put you off?
one night stands???? what is so good about one night stands??? i no everyone has needs and hasnt always got a boyfriend or girlfriend, but if a girl goes out and has sex with 2 men in one night shes a s**g but if a man does it hes a hero why????
How Often Do One Night Stand Occurs For You? you hear stories on talk shows and the news and stuff about parties and teens doing drugs and having sex with someone they don't even know. just curious if one night stands happends a lot to you.
Question about one night stands?? Are most of your one night stands just average guys or girls ?? What would be a deal breaker for a one night stand for you ?? (overweight, smoker, etc.) Does a one night stand have to be in perfect condition (six-pack, extremely muscular ?? How do your limits on one nighters and LTR's differ (physical appearance wise) ??
Long Term AFFAIRS or ONE NIGHT STANDS? If your partner cheated on you, would you cope better with a long term loving affair, where they sent them love letters, flowers and declared their undying love for them, or a dozen one night stands! They have cheated, end of, but do one night stands mean less to them? To me, a long term relationship involving love letters and prezzies is far worse than a dozen one night stands! You are committed to the other person as well as your partner, so you know exactly what you’re doing! You are betraying and disrespecting your partner, whilst sh@gging your lover! Saying that, a dozen one night stands mean a serial adulterer! No winners, when you think about it! How long does it take to get over this type of betrayal? Have you cheated? Are you the victim? Are you the lover? Comments from all parties would be welcome! I do intend on doing either, I am a victim of a long term affair!
One night stands and potential partners? If you knew that a potential partner had had a one night stand (or stands) would that put you off having a relationship with them? And if so, how many would it take to put you off?
Why am i having trouble getting girls or even one night stands? i am in college..i party alot, drink and have alot of friends that are girls. but why am i having problems getting with girls. its been a while since ive been with a girl and all my friends seem to get them no problem. What am i doing wrong? i am a nice guy and talk to these girls all the time on patrys a weekends. I feel like i am in a huge rut right now
Opinions on one night stands before the wedding? Some girls and I were talking about whether it's ok to have sex with someone other than your future spouse before the wedding--a last chance, no-strings-attached fling before you're officially Not Single. Should/could you have a one night stand? If you do, should you tell your partner? I'm not looking for condemnation or commendation, I'm looking for thoughts, opinions and insights. Serious answers only please. I am not, nor have I ever, planning on cheating on my man. I love him. My friend said that people agreed with her and that you should go out and do it, but I disagreed and wanted to know what people thought. That's all. And I am a GIRL.
What is the percentage of girls doing one-night stands ? I've heard from my roommate (a girl) that everybody is doing it. Are they not afraid of STDs? I understand that they're just after the sensations but can't they just caress themselves (hand, toys etc.) or find a monogamous boyfriend.
How amny diseaes does a condom not protect against if i want some one night stands? I know aids is a given, but which ones can you catch wearing a jonny. What does a condom actually protect against. Id like to know particularly against the non-curable ones. My mate said chuck a jonny on and your good to go. Im 25 and just come out of a long baad relationship and now want to enjoy being young when i got the chance. I want to get me some young hot punanny! Yeah!
Is it possible to change a chick from just doing one night stands to having a long-term relationship? I met this one chick and shes really cute, but she has a very low self esteem and shes a one night stand chick, I wanted to know if I can possibly change the fact that she is a one night stand chick and show her how it is to be in a real relationship where the guy shes doing actually loves her and isn't gonna leave her the next day cuz I really want to be in a relationship woth this chick cuz shes really cool, sweet, awesome and likes alotta things I like. Im 15 btw I've never had sex with her btw
One night stands, in the past so I should forget it, why? Is it me or is there a double standard? I meet women who resist having conversations about their lives. Of course when someone you begin dating is talking about themselves, they want to present the best image they possibly can. I always make it clear that I have never, not want to date anyone who has had a one night stand. among other things. I also don't enjoy dating vegetarians, drug addicts former or past, nor closed minded people. Of course the woman eventually spills the beans later on down the road, and what do you know, they used to have one night stands (of course happened only once, when they were really young, drunk, at a party, in Mexico). So why at that point am I expected to simply accept the person for who they are now? Keep in mind that I was absolutely clear from the beginning about what kind of person I am comfortable dating. Of course at that point, I am being accused of having a closed mind, and I should accept their past. To that I ask why? What if I was a crimina Again, I don't think it is closed minded of me to select to be with someone who I feel comfortable being with. In the same way I don't feel comfortable dating vegetarians or excessively tall women, I have the right to not want to be with someone who's past behavior I don't appreciate. Shouldn't I have the right to appreciate the woman I date? Wow, very different responses today on the same question I asked a few days ago. Thank you for your replies. I am honest, not religious and believe everything about a person's past shapes who they are today, therefore I believe the past counts for a lot about character. Wow, I'm getting slaughtered today. Since when is it bad to have distinguished a set of standards in which to make good judgements about what type of person you want to date? I enjoy dating people I have things in common with, including what I consider good judgement. It's poor judgement for example to steal. Should I date women who did time for theft, just because it was in their past, even though I am not comfortable doing so? I guess the better question I should have asked is, how many of you calling me closed minded have yourselves had one night stands, and do not appreciate being judged in a negative way for doing so?
Which do you prefer, a seris of one night stands or a relationship? I am just interested in finding out..... A seris of one night stands or a relationship? Which do you prefer? I look around and to me it seems that this society is moslty about going out on a weekend and getting a shag, its not about looking to meet someone nice to have a relationship with and i think that is a sad thing. Not everyone is like that I know, but most people are. Yeah sex is great but whats wrong with doing it with someone you know and care about, instead of some random person.
Is it ok to have one night stands with a friend? can u have a sex thing with a friend just one time and not hurt the friendship? or can one night stands only be done with people u have no feelings for? which is best for females oral or a*al sex?
One night stands? I'm 16 and am interested in a one night stand. I'm a virgin right now, and as long as u use protection and are on the pill, one night stands aren't that bad right? It's just harmless fun.
Why do people do one night stands?? I hate people who do one night stands. How come they cannot realize that they can just find their lifelong partner and so a unlimited night stands (sex every night) with their soulmate (wife/husband) without worrying about being pregnant after getting the tubes tied or the vas deferens being cut. Maybe they just cannot find anyone to like them so they have to do one night stands. I hate people who are like that.
Why do people do one night stands?? I hate people who do one night stands. How come they cannot realize that they can just find their lifelong partner and so a unlimited night stands (sex every night) with their soulmate (wife/husband) without worrying about being pregnant after getting the tubes tied or the vas deferens being cut. Maybe they just cannot find anyone to like them so they have to do one night stands. I hate people who are like that.
Why do people do one night stands?? I hate people who do one night stands. How come they cannot realize that they can just find their lifelong partner and so a unlimited night stands (sex every night) with their soulmate (wife/husband) without worrying about being pregnant after getting the tubes tied or the vas deferens being cut. Maybe they just cannot find anyone to like them so they have to do one night stands. I hate people who are like that.
Why do people do one night stands?? I hate people who do one night stands. How come they cannot realize that they can just find their lifelong partner and so a unlimited night stands (sex every night) with their soulmate (wife/husband) without worrying about being pregnant after getting the tubes tied or the vas deferens being cut. Maybe they just cannot find anyone to like them so they have to do one night stands. I hate people who are like that.
Why do people do one night stands?? I hate people who do one night stands. How come they cannot realize that they can just find their lifelong partner and so a unlimited night stands (sex every night) with their soulmate (wife/husband) without worrying about being pregnant after getting the tubes tied or the vas deferens being cut. Maybe they just cannot find anyone to like them so they have to do one night stands. I hate people who are like that.
Ladies & one night stands? Ive always been curious about this. I know girls are wired a little differently than men & they actually need to know a person (sometimes) before having sex with them, this isnt true with men obviously, we can havee sex with a total stranger just based on what she looks like. However, Ive always been curious, how often girls have one night stands with someone just for casual sex like what men do. So Ladies, please comment on this, do you have casual sex regularly, rarely, or not at all. & by casual sex, i mean you just met the guy that night & that same night you have sex with him.
Can relationships come from one night stands???? my friend had a one night stand 9 years ago with her now husband...they are now happily married with three kids! Everyone says one night stands are terrible things...i dont have them often but dont you think with womans emacipation this is a backwards idea (i mena as long as you protect yourself..you are respecting your self is my motto) Has anyone had a one night stand that has turned in to a great realtionship..if so could you elabourate???
Do women who do one night stands expect to be taken seriously? I have asked this question before, a while back. But do girls who have permiscuous sex really expect to be taken seriously? All one night stands prove are how shallow and/or drunk a female can get. I mean im an average looking guy, JUST average, im not "hot" at all. Do girls who have one night stands, really expect to find a serious relationships. Because to be honest most guys will not respect them, and will be reluctant to treat them as good as they usualy would treat a girl (at least that how I am) I would not dare have a one night stand people, understand that.
Sexual assault during One-night-stands? I saw a big thing on tv about sexual assault in sport. They were talking about guys in sport such as football, soccer, cricket, etc, who tend to assault girls in teams (of 2 or more guys) especially when they are touring away from homeground. Understandably, anyone who is sexually assaulted is a victim and receives sympathy. But what do you think about those girls who could have avoided the situation? One-night-stands - you meet a guy for the first time (whether or not you know their face from tv) and decide to go to their hotel room for the night, that's a huge risk! You don't know what (or who) they have waiting for you back in that room. This is in no way an excuse for the guys to assault girls, but I find it very hard to sympathise with someone who goes to a someone else's hotel room for a one-night-stand when you don't know them. This is not just about sport.. it could be ANYONE you decide to have a one-nighter with. He could be a psycho murderer! Girls please be careful!
One Night Stands? I know that one night stands take place between two consenting adults but is it possible for a man to truly respect a woman that he meets in a club, buys a few drinks and is able to take her home at 4 in the morning, and screw her. Other than for sexual purposes is it likely that he'll be calling her anytime soon or would he pretty much not be interested into pursuing anything more with her than just sex?
One night stands...? Do people who have one night stands have more respect for themselves because they do not feel the need to conform to what society believes is morally correct, or do the lack self respect because of the nature of sex without a commitment?
One night stands? which are the best places to have one night stands without getting caught?
One night stands? I am just curious to know what your attitude is towards one night stands. Have you ever done it? If so, why did you and how do you feel about it now? If not, why not. Is it because you see something wrong with it or that you just haven't had the opportunity.
One night stands? Do girls really like one night stands? Alot of girls say they dont because theres no feelings involved. I like them because you can say or do things you wouldnt normally do and not be embarressed in the morning or when you next see them
One night stands? Girls, I travel alot on business, and because I'm constantly between cities it's hard for me to consider a relationship. With that in mind- It seems like a lot of girls don't want to admit to having one night stands in person, but since no one knows who you really are here, spill. Do you have one nighters and flings often and what's the best way to convince girls to go for it. Maybe I said it wrong, not convince them, just an incentive to do it while they have the chance, like I'm leaving town tomorrow this will be our only chance to be together.
One night stands.....? Are they still seen as the wrong thing to do? Seems to me like one night stands are becomming a very common thing. I mean whats wrong with a bit of no strings attached fun as long as its safe?
human nature and one night stands? i used to think that i'd be the person who gets married and would stay married no matter what. i'm not married yet, but as i grow older, i start to think that humans are not made to be loyal. just look at how much we love variety, and that includes partners. we're all attracted to beautiful things, aren't we? so, my point is, is it really wrong to have one night stands? not everyone is ready to commit. am i wrong to believe that it is only human nature to pursue what is attractive? and, i mean, i may "lust" after another person, but i don't have to love that person right? that's where one night stands come in. this last part is gonna get me a lot of bashing. yep i have a target. and he's married. i'm not after his love or his life or anything. i just want one shot. do you think that's immoral or whatever? i'm not out to ruin his life, that's what i wanna say up front. just borrowing a few hours out of his life.
one night stands? who thinks having quite a few one night stands is acceptable? if your not with a partner and using protection? thanks in advance
One night stands? It´s funny how everyone who´s opossed to it mentions the possible unwanted pregnancy and std´s, but always forgets the fact that you get to sleep with an unknown person who could be a murderer. Let's forget whether you're againist one night stands and tell me, aren't we naive and ''clicheist'' humans?
Are you into one night stands...... romps with people you have no feelings for? I personally can't see how you can sleep with someone you dont have emotional attractions to - but thats just me. I'd just like to see if there's more people who are into one night stands or more people that aren't into them. Does there have to be a physical attraction to the person you'd have a one night stand with? Or have you ever just taken whatever is infront of you. Don't you get freaked out not knowing where the persons been? I'm not judging anyone here so don't be worried about saying if you do like to sleep around a bit. As long as you dont have a partner - who's it hurting.
One night stands? What are everyones experiences and storys on there one night stands, ive never had one and to be honest im kinda scared of having one, is it awkward? what happens in the morning? what if neither of u dont enjoy it ?
One night stands, to the people who have them? why do people have one night stands and what do they get from it? do you have any regrets. have you or would you do it if you were married ? what type of feelings are involved? were you drunk/stoned ?
One night stands? How many one night stands do you need to have before becoming a sl....?
one night stands? I;ve learned through a friend my ex girlfriend is having one night stands. She always accused me of cheating and she was pure, but through my friend, she tells me she was lying and was cheating on you. My ex don't have to many friends. what causes a woman to do this. Is this a mental problem. I hate to see her get sick and hurt. I know you'll say let her go. it's not your problem
One night stands? How is it men are constantly bragging about one night stands and women never seem to admit having them. Am I to believe that there's a couple of women servicing the nation?
Q for mature audience - One-night-stands..? I heard on the radio this morning that one-night-stands tend to turn into a real relationship. This woman called in and said hers turned into a marriage and they've been married for 20 years now. Holy shmokes! Anyway, had this happened to any of you? 1-night-stands that turned into a relationship? Thanks..
Have one-night-stands gone out of fashion? these days people are very conservative and only have sex with whom they are committed to - because of the risks of STDs and unwanted pregnancies...so one-night-stands are quickly fading out (it still happens, but not as much as it was in the 70s and 80s) and becoming an urban legend. Don't you agree with me?
Poll...One night stands? I live in a big city and it seems like most people here are pretty casual about random one night stands. I, on the other hand, am not. I have the old fashioned idea that I should only be with a boyfriend. Do you guys think it's pretty normal to be so casual about it? What side are you on? Curious. And, if you're daring, how often do you engage?
wifes one night stands? my wife confesed to haveing 2 one night stands with guy she met at bars whyle i was at work.i really dont know how to say this but thinking or her with other men really turns me on
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